“and let live: This is my favorite saying. Its meaning is very powerful. When you give yourself permission to do what you want, then you’re able to give others that freedom. It defines correct boundaries. You’re the only one over whom you have power, and only you are responsible for yourself. You discover that your actions create your happiness. The four don’ts: The four don’ts remind you not to focus on, have expectations of, judge, or spend your time thinking about others. Don’t watch. Don’t expect. Don’t judge. Don’t obsess.”