From Seeking To Radiating Love: Evolution is unavoidable in the process of overpowering doubt
Elelwani Anita Ravhuhali
Top 10 Best Quotes
“It doesn’t take an intellectual to figure out how unwanted you are. I feel the most challenging part is bearing just how someone holds so much power in their hands to make you feel as small and trivial as they possibly can. It is a horrific actualization that somewhere in life, you walked into a room desiring to be treasured, and instead, you were met with disregard and made to feel as small and extraneous as conceivably possible. It is the agony involved in eventually making you reach this realization. That nobody who intends to mistreat you sincerely verbalizes their intentions. You are left to figure this out on your own after going through a humiliating process.”
“A man who sees you midweek and again on Sunday evening doesn’t belong to you.”
“Often, deceitful and unfaithful individuals seem to deny those they have claimed to love any form of clarity. You are left hanging, often having to fend for yourself on where the truth lies. It seems they operate under the assumption that those in their lives will eventually figure a way out, that they will somehow read other people’s minds and know where they stand.”
“It isn’t difficult to determine that someone doesn’t treasure you. It’s always there, popping out in every direction. It’s in the moments they don’t show up when they say they will, the times they don’t take a minute out of their days to let you know they won’t make it anymore.”
“You don’t need the strength to fight another woman; you need the courage to get up and find the door. If it’s your own door, kick him out, and don’t ever let him in again.”
“When I stopped feeling sorry for myself, I realized that my decision was motivated by my necessity to please everyone except myself. There had never been a time where I stood up against my family. And this was out of my desperate need to be accepted.”
“Until you feel sick of the presence of emotionally detached men and begging them to do right by you, they keep camping in your yard, offering you silent treatments each time a conflict arises.”
“The sad thing about staying with a man you don’t trust is that it turns you into a maniac.”
“Often, I minimize some of my emotions just so I don’t appear as complicated. I dilute the most essential parts of myself just to be accepted.”
“Men who are still hung up on their relationships from ages ago have not taken the time to heal their wounds. They are often reeling with pain and have found coping measures, including emotional absence. This isn’t the kind of man who will be able to extend any form of emotional presence to you, he is already letting you know how he’s still struggling with his past wounds, and often, these are the most emotionally harmful men you will ever meet.”
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people-pleasing, unwanted, rejection, unloved, silent-treatment, healing-the-past, low-self-esteem, undesired, emotional-absence, cheaters, emotional-abuse, pain, self-love, cheating
