Questions for Ada
Ijeoma Umebinyuo
Top 10 Best Quotes
“So, here you are too foreign for home too foreign for here. Never enough for both.”
“1. You must let the pain visit. 2. You must allow it teach you 3. You must not allow it overstay. (Three routes to healing)”
“Here’s to the security guards who maybe had a degree in another land. Here’s to the manicurist who had to leave her family to come here, painting the nails, scrubbing the feet of strangers. Here’s to the janitors who don’t understand English yet work hard despite it all. Here’s to the fast food workers who work hard to see their family smile. Here’s to the laundry man at the Marriott who told me with the sparkle in his eyes how he was an engineer in Peru. Here’s to the bus driver, the Turkish Sufi who almost danced when I quoted Rumi. Here’s to the harvesters who live in fear of being deported for coming here to open the road for their future generation. Here’s to the taxi drivers from Nigeria, Ghana, Egypt and India who gossip amongst themselves. Here is to them waking up at 4am, calling home to hear the voices of their loved ones. Here is to their children, to the children who despite it all become artists, writers, teachers, doctors, lawyers, activists and rebels. Here’s to international money transfer. For never forgetting home. Here’s to their children who carry the heartbeats of their motherland and even in sleep, speak with pride about their fathers. Keep on.”
“I am too full of life to be half-loved.”
“The day your education makes you roll your eyes at your father. The day your exposure makes you call your own mother uncivilized, the day your amazing foreign degrees make you cringe as your driver speaks pidgin english, may you never forget your grandfather was a farmer from Oyo state who never understood english.”
“Stay away from men who peel the skin of other women, forcing you to wear them.”
“Do not drown yourself in a man. He will leave you struggling to breathe.”
“You did not carry yourself away from pain to become pain itself.”
“IRONY They invite you to come view artifacts stolen from your ancestors in their museums as their "experts" explain your ancient Benin kingdom”
“Healing comes in waves and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that's ok, that's ok, darling you are still healing you are still healing.”
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first-generation, poetry, abroad, colonization, foreigner, moving-forward, healing, pain, immigration, prideful, traveling, african-authors, diaspora, recovery