Joan Is Okay
Weike Wang
Top 10 Best Quotes
“THERE IS NO REAL fight against death because death will always win. But death can be handled well or poorly.”
“Home could be many things. It could be both a comfort and a pain. It could exile you for a little while but then demand that you return.”
“The famed MRS degree, because in practice, a female brain is worth nothing. Four lobes of the cerebrum, and I have sometimes imagined one of mine labeled RAGE.”
“Some bonds are so forged in fire, some experiences are so permeated with feeling, that it is impossible to not see them with love.”
“No formal antonym for catastrophizing exists, but why did it seem that more people had this trait than not? Isn't it more evolutionary favorable to catastrophize? Does fortune truly favor the bold?”
“Much of any culture can be linked back to eating and food, food and care, eating and language. To eat one's feelings, to eat dust, words, to eat your own heart out, to eat someone else alive, to eat your cake and have it too, things that are adorable (puppies, babies) that are said to be good enough to eat, to have someone else eat out of the palm of your hand, to be chewed out, a dog-eat-dog world. Chinese isn't any different from English in this way. Chī for "eat," and chī sù, to only eat vegetables, but also, colloquially, to be a pushover. Chī cù, to eat vinegar or be jealous. Chī lì, to eat effort, as for a task that is very strenuous. To eat surprise, to be amazed, chī jī ng. To be completely full or chī bǎo fàn, and thus to have nothing better to do. To eat punishment or get the worst of it, chī kuī. And, most important, to eat hardship, suffering, and pain, chī kǔ, a defining Chinese quality, to be able to bear a great deal without showing a crack.”
“Hurt can be paid forward and often is, to make your own feel less.”
“A woman who twirls her hair while speaking is a woman never to be taken seriously”
“The surgical ICU had its surgeons and anesthesiologists, doctors who wrote the shortest and most indecipherable notes. The notes reminded me of haikus, and because I wasn’t a literary person, I called my time in this unit difficult poetry.”
“The joy of having been standardized was that you didn't need to think beyond a certain area. Like a death handled well, a box had been put around you, and within it you could feel safe.”
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immigrants, professionalism, covid-19, immigrant-experience, chinese, catastrophe, asian-american, woman, women, chinese-proverb, femininity